Archive | March, 2004

My Biggest Fear

17 Mar

I visited with Mary yesterday. It was her birthday. We started talking about our biggest fears. Hers has always been very Dawn of the Dead-esque. (When there’s no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth. Being the last person around, etc.)

Spider!My biggest fear has always been my worry that insects would discover that they outnumber humans by about 1.6 billion to one and then they’d take over the world. That’s probably the main reason why Fear Factor freaks me out. Just imagining all those nasties all over you… Ew. Zombies scary? Maybe. Spiders, ants, and all squirmies at your door hunting you down? Very scary!

So maybe Mary and I don’t have very realistic fears, but these stem from childhood. I think people are constantly on cell phones because they are scared of being alone… Or is that just my thinking?

Death And Taxes

15 Mar

“The only two certain things in life,” goes the cliche, “are death and taxes.”

Doing my taxes: simple. I am not a tax protester in any way. I did them a while ago, and recently recieved my federal tax refund. I think combined with my state refund, I could buy an iPod –but I won’t. I’ll buy books for next term. :(

Doing my mom’s taxes: death. Not only are they more complex than my own, but she’s very vague about her finances.

Me: So I need W2 forms.
Mom: I give you form already!
Me: So how much money did you make last year?
Mom: I tell you already! Just do taxes!

I’ve been doing my mom’s taxes since I was 16, but I am still shocked when I ask her a question she says “Under table! It’s no problem!” If I am prosecuted for tax fraud, someone please bail me out of jail. My mother won’t; she’s too cheap.

William Hung

9 Mar

The Scene: Driving Mom to Hillsboro. Korean in Italics.

Radio: (Commercial for American Idol) …And William Hung!
Me: Haha. That Hung guy cracks me up!
Mom: He’s the Chinese boy?
Me: Yes. Shows you don’t have to have talent for the American public to like you, I guess.
Mom: Mama thinking he is Ritalian.
Me: (Confused) No, uh, he’s Chinese.
Mom: (Confused) Oh, okay.
Me: (Dismiss topic; starts singing to radio) My milkshake’s better than yoooos.
Mom: OH! RETARD! That’s what Mama saying. Chinese boy is retardian!
Me: Mom, William Hung is not retarded.
Mom: Yes, but he has ugly teeth.

I guess I can’t argue with that.

When I first saw William Hung on American Idol try-outs, I laughed. He’s fresh off the boat, has no rhythm, and (like my mother says) has bad teeth. He told Paula “I have no professional training” and Simon said “Obviously” in that mean brit tone of his. I thought that was the end of Hung. Nope.

Now I see him on MTV, the Ellen Degeneres Show, Extra, the local news, etc.. There are dozens of websites for this guy, and I’ve even heard club mixes of his audition song. I know all about this guy. I know that he goes to Berkeley, he’s a civil engineer, and girls are pining for him all over the nation. I am now seriously perturbed by his popularity.

We are not laughing with him. We are all laughing at him. My biggest concern is that he may think he’s actually a good singer. William, if you are listening out there, please stop. You’re a smart boy. Do what your mama tells you to, and JUST BE AN ENGINEER!

I think his popularity is spawned from a deep rooted racist nerve in America where it is okay to laugh at Asians. Seriously, isn’t William Hung the Asian version of Jim Crow? He perpetuates certain stereotypes of the unmasculine, geeky, fobby, Asian man.

I hope Hung’s family is making a ton of money off of this.

Celebrating mixed diversity

4 Mar

Not only is the world becoming more ethnically diverse, but Hollywood is as well. Ask any young American who the most famous Asians are, and they’ll list off the same individuals: television heartthrob Dean Cain, golf legend Tiger Woods, movie star Keanu Reeves, news anchor Ann Curry, rock star Doug Robb. What do all these stars have in common? Besides being popular in the public eye, they are all multiracial.

Being multiracial in today’s world is not necessarily becoming more popular, but there is a definite feeling of not being alone. Instead of the desperate feeling of being stuck between two cultures, many young people have looked up to new organizations celebrating mixed diversity.

The Mavin Foundation is a nonprofit organization that is redefining diversity by celebrating multiracial and transracially-adopted youth. In 2001, Mavin founded MatchMaker, the only national program dedicated to mixed race bone marrow donor recruitment and education, because of the chronic shortage of multiracial donors on the National Marrow Donor Program (NMDP).

Tens of thousands of people a year are diagnosed with diseases that are treatable with a marrow or blood stem transplant. A marrow match is usually found with someone of the same racial or ethnic background. A program like MatchMaker is desperately needed because of the 7 million donors worldwide, registered with the NMDP Registry, only 25% are racial minorities –and only 2% are multiracial. MatchMaker works at diversifying the pool of potential donors with registration drives and public education on this subject.

This spring, MatchMaker launched 65 marrow drives with 35 student organizations across the nation. A press conference was held at San Jose State University to help kick-off the bone marrow drive. A search to find a life-saving bone marrow match for two-year-old leukemia patient, Chloe Chang, is the focus of the nationwide effort highlighted by 11 Bay Area drives.

Gordon Chang, Ph.D., Chloe’s father and professor of Asian American Studies at Stanford University, says his wife and he are touched by the community response.

“In our experience, many, many people, biracial and other minority communities, have responded energetically, once they have heard about the plight of biracial children and the difficulty of matching,” Dr. Chang says. “But of course that is the challenge: getting the word out.”

Chloe’s leukemia was in remission, but she relapsed last fall and needs a bone marrow transplant, the only known cure. The search is made more difficult because she is multiracial. As mentioned, only 2% of registered donors are multiracial.

Sharon Sugiyama, Asians for Miracle Marrow Matches (A3M) Director, brings up the point that until recently, donors could only designate one racial or ethnic group, so there are a number of registrants who are multiracial but not identified that way. Based solely on what she has heard, Sugiyama says, “…multi-racial patients fare almost as well as Caucasians and better than other minorities in their search for matching donors.”

Regardless, Sugiyama believes that people need to be educated to register as a potential bone marrow donor. She speaks from personal experience about the need for organizations like A3M. It’s about life and death.

“A3M began in response to patients’ needing matching donors for bone marrow transplant to have a chance to live,” Sugiyama says. “My nephew was a patient in 1990-91 when there were only a few thousand Asian donors in the NMDP.”

The number of donors going up will not help everyone. “Since ethnicity is a factor, minority donors do not fare as well as Caucasians in searching the donor databases which are made up largely of Caucasians,” Sugiyama explains. “Tissue types, used for matching, are inherited and can be traced to geographic origin.”

“The brother of a searching patient once told us that ‘every donor counts,’” Sugiyama says. “A few months later a registrant from one of our drives became his brother’s donor. That is a miracle and we believe in miracles!”

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